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The holidays are upon us; a time of celebration and joy. I love the last days of November through the beginning of the New Year. The pure magic of the holidays is something that I anticipate and enjoy each and every year.

For some though, the holidays have lost the joy and excitement they at other times have had. The pace of life has grown so fast—much faster than those first holidays I remember in my life—that some people don’t enjoy the times they get to spend with their family and friends during what is supposed to be days filled with joy and peace.

Why is that? Probably a lot can be laid at the feet of how fast-paced our times are, but that isn’t all.

I believe our holiday times should be wonderful and filled with lasting and enjoyable moments and memories. So how can we ensure that we come out of the holidays in January with great memories of the past month? Here are six thoughts that will help you experience the holidays the way they were intended to be experienced:

Be Temperate
Holidays can be days of excess for many—too much food, too many cookies and treats. Too much chocolate, schedules that are too busy. One thing that will help you enjoy the holidays is to be temperate. Enjoy the food. Enjoy the treats. Enjoy the busy schedule of activities and parties. But also be disciplined enough to know when to hold back, when to say, “No.” When we go overboard we regret it and lose the opportunity to fully experience that moment. But when we enjoy a little and refrain from going too far, then we can enjoy all that little piece of time has to offer.

Lower Your Expectations
Much of the frustration people experience from the holidays is from setting their expectations too high. They expect too much from friends or family, and when they don’t get what they want, they get frustrated. They expect presents to be perfect and when they aren’t, they get frustrated or disappointed. Instead of having huge expectations this holiday season, just take it as it comes and enjoy what you can. And this brings me to my next point.

Enjoy What You Can and Ignore the Rest
This holiday season, go with an attitude of knowing that things will be what they will be. You can’t control other people or their actions. If a family member pushes the limits of your patience, ignore that and instead focus on how much you can enjoy the time you have with other family members. If things don’t go perfectly—which they won’t—then enjoy what you can and let the rest slide. You will feel a lot better about life if you can take all things a little easier.

Stay Out of Debt
Debt is a killer. It will steal your enjoyment of life. Be sure to stay within your financial boundaries this holiday season. The last thing you want is to start the New Year with a deeper burden financially. Know where you are financially and stay within those limits. You don’t have to impress anyone, just buy gifts that you can afford and express your feelings in the giving of the gift.

Take Time for Yourself
Be sure that, no matter how busy you get, you take time for yourself. Take time to read. Take a long bath if that relaxes you. Take a walk. Spend some time of quiet in front of a fire. Don’t rush through the holidays and sap all of your energy. Your mind and body need to be reenergized, so be sure to take time to do so.

Focus on Your Spiritual Life
Ultimately, no matter what tradition you come from, the holidays are historically days in which we focus on the spiritual. Men and women are created with a natural draw toward spiritual life. However, our culture today tends to stay away from a focus on the spiritual, and that has even crept into our holidays. Be sure to place an emphasis on building your spiritual life and growing in that area. This will help keep you grounded and able to deal with anything that may come your way.

Friends, this time of year is another chance to remember the important truths of life and to enjoy time with dear friends and family.

May you experience the very best this holiday season and move into January better than ever!

I am pretty sure that I heard this quote from Brad Wolgamott when I was an Amway Distributor on the 90’s:

“In order to empower others, you must first be powerful.”

It’s no secret that you gain power with knowledge and that is one of the reasons why I read five to six books a months and spend thousands of dollars a year on my education.

Back in my Amway days, the book list we were provided did not include much in the way of new information. I can pretty much guarantee that Perry Marshall, Dan Kennedy and Yanik Silver, (all masters of marketing) have not made their way to the World Wide Dream Builders book list.

But thanks to my time spent in Amway, I learned how to become a student and I learned the value of self improvement and continuing education. I guess I should mention that I created my first six-figure Network Marketing income shortly after leaving Quixtar, which was the online version of Amway.

As a leader, you must learn to empower the people in your business to achieve their best and brightest and I don’t believe that you can do that without building a better you, through personal development.

Remember, the difference between a professional and a $2.97 bonus check earner is knowledge and persistence, not talent.

As we approach the halfway mark for the year 2009, I thought it would be a good idea to revisit a post I made last New Years Eve…

Here are 5 ways to make 2009 your best year ever:

1. Start a home business. Network Marketing is a great option because it is essentially a reccession proof industry, in fact the industry has shown in the past to grow rapidly in poor economies.  The other great thing about Network Marketing is that the start up is typically less than $1,000, making it affordable for most people.

2. Get your body moving. Walk, run, jog, dance, or workout…doesn’t matter what you do, just get that body moving.

3. Eat more whole foods. Foods spiked with synthetic vitamins have shown to cause health problems in multiple studies.  Eat more whole fruits and vegetables and if you would like to get multiple servings in a simple to drink whole food liquid, try Eiro.

4. Connect with people you care about. Facebook is a great way to connect with people that you may have missed in your life.  Life is too short to forget about the people that are most important to you.

5. Improve yourself. Work to become a better you.  Read more, listen to more positive audio, study more successful people and find yourself a mentor.

Bonus: When you are working, work harder than anyone else.  When you are resting, truly rest because you have earned it.

How are you doing so far?